As an autism parent, finding moments of peace and calm amidst the demands of everyday life can feel challenging….to say the least!
Meditation offers us a powerful, always-accessible tool to cultivate mindfulness, reduce stress, and enhance our overall well-being.
In this article, we'll explore seven practical tips to help you incorporate meditation into your life, even with a busy schedule. So let's dive in and discover how you can begin a meditation practice, find time for it, and experience the numerous benefits it brings.
The Benefits Of Meditation
Meditation offers a range of benefits for autism parents. Plus, the more you do it, the better it seems to work…remember, it’s a meditation practice… which means you have to practice doing it!
These are just some of the benefits that can happen when you regularly meditate or practice mindfulness…
- Reduce stress
- Promote relaxation
- Allows you to approach challenges with greater clarity and calmness
- Enhances self-awareness and emotional regulation
- Empowers you to respond to your child's needs effectively (and without reacting reactively)
- Improves focus and attention
- Fosters resilience and a sense of overall well-being
- Promotes better mental and emotional health
How To Begin A Meditation Practice
Starting a meditation practice may seem daunting, but it's easier than you think! You can do it any place, in any position…many people like to lie or sit down. You could just as easily do it lying down on a bed or sitting up at the kitchen table!
If you can, find a quiet place…it’ll make it easier on you while you get started. If you don’t have a quiet place (hello, life parenting an autistic child!), you can still do the technique, even if it isn’t quite as quiet.
Set a timer for a few minutes to start and gradually increase the duration. Focus on your breath or choose a simple mantra to repeat silently. Remember, it's normal for thoughts to arise; gently bring your attention back to your breath or mantra.
How Long Should I Meditate?
It’s 100% up to you!
The duration of your meditation practice is flexible and depends on your schedule, preferences, and everything else you have going on in your life! Even short meditation sessions, like 5-10 minutes, can have a significant impact on your well-being.
When it comes to meditation and mindfulness, some is definitely better than none.
How To Meditate When You Don’t Have Time
Even with a busy schedule, it's possible to incorporate meditation into your day.
Find pockets of time, such as during your child's nap or before they wake up in the morning. You can also try mini-meditations throughout the day, taking a few mindful breaths during transitions or waiting periods. Some people enjoy doing a quick meditation before they get out of bed in the morning or as a part of their wind-down bedtime routine.
A great time to practice meditation is while you’re waiting for your kiddo. Times like when they’re finishing therapy, school pick-up time, and waiting for them to finish up in the bathroom can all be times where you can tap into a little mindful zone out…just make sure you’re doing it safely and that your child is properly supervised if they need to be.
3 Easy Ways to Practice Meditation
If traditional sitting meditation doesn't resonate with you, explore alternative forms of meditation. Find something that works for you, and helps your brain learn how to be at peace with itself…
- Walking meditation involves focusing on each step and being mindful of your surroundings.
- Guided meditations, available through apps or online platforms, provide step-by-step instructions to help you relax and focus.
- Body scan meditations involve systematically bringing awareness to different parts of your body, promoting relaxation and release of tension.
I’m a huge fan of guided meditation…you can find a growing resource library of free guided mediations over at my YouTube channel! This link takes you to the Guided Meditation playlist.
7 Practical Tips to Cultivate Mindfulness
These are my Top 7 tips for incorporating meditation and mindfulness into my daily routine. While I may not do all of them every day, they have each been a part of my journey, and have been hugely helpful in creating my current meditation practice.
- Set a regular meditation schedule and stick to it.
- Create a designated meditation space that is comfortable and inviting.
- Start with guided meditations or meditation apps to help you stay focused.
- Experiment with different meditation techniques to find what works best for you.
- Practice self-compassion and let go of any judgment or expectations.
- Incorporate mindfulness into daily activities like eating, walking, or playing with your child.
- Join a meditation group or find an accountability partner to stay motivated and inspired.
Conclusion
By incorporating these practical tips, you can make meditation easily accessible and enjoyable in your life as an autism parent. Remember that meditation is a journey, and the key is consistency rather than perfection.
Through regular practice, you'll cultivate mindfulness, reduce stress, and enhance your well-being, enabling you to better support your child and navigate the challenges of autism parenting with grace and resilience.
Embrace the transformative power of meditation and witness the positive impact it brings to your life.
And don't forget to check out the FREE guided meditation resources I have available for you…like autism parenting, meditation may not always be easy, but it doesn’t have to be so hard!
Together, we can make both of them easier and more enjoyable.
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