When you’re raising an autistic or neurodivergent child… everyone has advice.

But how much of it is actually made for you?

If you're anything like me, you've tried to follow expert recommendations, implement the plans, make the appointments…and somehow still feel like you're behind, overwhelmed, and running on fumes.

And through all of that, no one asked how you were doing.

I know the weight of this parenting journey, because I’m on it too.

Out Of Your Ordinary started with a simple truth:

The better I take care of myself, the better I show up for my kids.

I spent years navigating a maze of therapies, assessments, and impossible expectations. All while slowly disappearing into the background of my own life.

What I needed wasn’t more strategies for them.

I needed tools to take care of me - as a neurodivergent person, as a mom, and as a human.

That’s what I offer here:

Realistic, non-judgy support for parents like us.

Because we don’t need more pressure…we need more peace.

How I help…

Through 1:1 coaching, digital tools, and my community on Substack, I help autism and neurodivergent parents build resilience, reconnect with themselves, and create practical self-care routines that make daily life feel less like survival mode.

Whether you’re navigating a new diagnosis or deep in the day-to-day, I’m here to support you.

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Fun facts

  • read 100+ books a year and I’m not slowing down. Yes, it’s a special interest. Yes, I have the merch and overflowing bookshelves to prove it.

  • …and then eloped to Vegas. One of those things was super on brand for me. The other, not so much! Almost 20 years and two autistic kids later, we’re still going strong.

  • And I did it when I was still in high school. My own Neuro Spiciness makes me excellent at methodically planning and organizing big projects, and everyday things too. Thanks, OCD…you’re the best!

  • I'm a Certified Master Life Coach and a Level 2 Meditation Instructor. I also founded an email marketing agency, and have homeschooled my kids for 12+ years. Learning is a vibe.

Want to say hi or work together?

Contact me today, I’d love to hear from you.